Category Life

“Vincent from China aka Malaysia”

A former manager once called me “Vincent from China aka Malaysia.”
Maybe it sounded harmless to others. To me, it exposed how easily people reduce identity into stereotypes and assumptions. This is a personal reflection on racism, belonging, and the quiet frustration of constantly being seen as “other” despite knowing exactly who you are.

Why my website is called Falcoma

Falcoma is a name I didn’t invent. I saw it online, couldn’t find a real meaning, and that was exactly the point. It sounded unique, slightly feminine, and open enough to grow into something personal. The name reminds me of…

My CPAP Journey in Germany

Snoring. Breath-holding. A tired partner. That’s how it all started. What followed was a months-long journey through doctors, wires, eye-rolls, and, finally—sleep.